Sale – 5 Pound Bag of Oranges

October 29th, 2006

I know my husband is probably groaning over me telling my orange story again. He has heard it plenty of times. Sorry honey, it must be done. The world must know my citrus saga. The people of this great planet deserve to have the blinders taken off on what our 5 pound bags of oranges really amount to in the present day. Are you ready for this? 3.25 pounds.

Not long ago, I was hovering over a display of beautiful bagged oranges. They were on sale and stacked up in all of their glory at the front of the produce section. Though I don’t recall the actual price, I remember thinking it was a good deal for a 5 pound bag. I picked a bag, placed it in my cart and went on my merry way. Something was nagging at me though. I kept looking at my bag of oranges. It sure looked petite. Though it doesn’t take a great deal of might to toss a 5 pound bag in the cart, that particular bag sailed through the air with a fingertip’s effort. My curiosity started to get the best of me and I decided to hunt down a scale. A few minutes later, I had to do a bit of searching, I was staring at the indeniable truth. My 5 pound bag of oranges weighed a hair over 3 pounds. Unlucky pick? Nope. Guess who had nothing better to do than return to the orange display and start weighing bags? That would be me. It took 7 bags to find one weighing near 5 pounds. Most were hovering around the 3-3.5 pound mark. Some reached an admirable 4 pounds. None were over 5 pounds…surprise, surprise.

I could go on and on about the ridiculous looks and comments store management gave me when I shared my concerns. Afterall, so what if the bags are short a pound or two? That’s a blog for another day. Today, I’m thinking about the strength of a label. How easy it is to walk away with 3 pounds of oranges, no matter what inconsistencies may exist, simply because something or someone is telling us differently. What other labels have fooled me? What other labels have fooled you? When something or someone is identified a certain way, do you take that label as the unbendable truth? Now I challenge myself to get out the scale and measure things. I don’t brush off nagging feelings. It’s hard to know how many 3 pound bags of oranges are actually out there. There is some comfort in knowing I’m better prepared to spot them.

Don’t think for a minute this is the last blog on labels. My Australian friend Helen, mentioned in my About page, hates the labels people plaster on themselves and others. She’s really helped me to see things differently. Stay tuned.

My Maiden Blog

October 28th, 2006

Many thanks to my wonderful husband who surprised me with my very own blog page. To understand how the name came to be, you’ll need to visit my About page.

Why blog? Writing has always been fun for me. For the past 10 years I have neglected it terribly. In my twenties and early thirties I was more focused on climbing corporate ladders than expressing creative thought. Now I’m thirty-five, a mom and ready to take a moment to get in touch with how I see my world. Blogging is appealing to me because this is my page, for my thoughts. It’s not about debating positions with others. I don’t need to frame the page in a way that appeals to the masses. It’s simply about me and how I want to tackle issues.

Speaking of me, perhaps I should share a little bit about myself. If you asked my friends to describe me, I know many would use the words logical, funny, professional and kind. I hear these words often, so I’m not an ego maniac who has a sunny view of herself. I’m glad people see me this way because I go to great lengths to present myself in that fashion. My mother will tell you I have two core qualities working in my favor. One, I’m courteous. Respecting those who share this world with me is top of the list. It has always been important to me to try to consider how events, words, circumstances effect other people. It’s easy to know how I’m effected. Putting myself in the shoes of others takes effort, but it’s effort well spent. Two, I embarrass easily. That quality forces me to think before I act and speak. Life would have a lot less drama in it if people’s thresholds for embarrassment weren’t so high. Trust me, there is bound to be a post dedicated strictly to this concept in the near future.

So I’m off and blogging. My focus is really going to be to try to find the path of wisdom in everyday circumstances that seem to trip up the masses. Maybe my exploration of topics will help me come to conclusions that will keep my life and relationships on course. What a bonus if others get something out of it too.